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**Jenny** · #1 (**permalink**) 06-14-2011

Xem bọn prof tây tâm sự buồn cười quá. Mấy thằng trả lời cũng chửi đàn bà điên cuồng:

I have many things that I want and I am very happy about my achievements and my financial situation although I am not earning top dollars nor I am a top scholar. But at least I have a nice AP position which I like.
But I am terrible with woman and that almost sweeps away everything. I believe that I will be very happy if I can find someone that I love but instead I just feel miserable. I am not looking for a gorgeous girl. I am just asking for someone that I am attracted to. I cried for years, I tried for years. Always I thought that I was missing something. First maybe it was the good education. No! Then, money maybe? No! I bought nice clothes, I bought a very nice car, I was always a good person... Now I am 34 and I did the best that I could and for years I had hope but now I just lost my hope. I am getting older without feeling the love. Yes I am drunk fuck who cares. I am not depressed I am functioning properly in any aspects but I am just too sad. Also, I am afraid. I am writing in this silly board to share my feelings so that I could feel a little bit better. The more I feel lonely the bigger the deal become and the harder it became. I lost all my confidence.

**Jenny** · #2 (**permalink**) 06-14-2011

Re 1: Women are terrible. As you've found out, nice clothes, a nice car, and being a nice person aren't good enough for them. Not to worry though mate, you're actually lucky. Women are mind-numbingly stupid, greedy and selfish - every single one of them. Save up some money and get a really expensive escort whenever you want sex, and enjoy the fact that you have no family and no responsibilities.

Re 2:
0f3c As a guy who has been married for years and dated many chicks, I can tell you settling down ain't all that it's cracked up to be. I am in a good marriage and I still crave and fantasize about the days when I was single and had my freedom. That not to say I dont love my wife, but you do give up a lot to be in a relationship. Benefits vs costs folks.
Part of your problem is that you think your life depends on a chick and that makes you desperate. Women can smell desperate from a mile away and will avoid you like the plague. Rather than focusing on getting a girl, just try to enjoy your life and your freedom. When you get to the point when you are happy being single, chicks will flock to you because the stench of deperation will be removed.
If you need sex, just masturbate. I know this last line makes me sound like a troll, but I'm being serious. Sex isn't always that good because women sometimes make you put in a lot of emotional work. Masturbating is a lot more relaxing.
You can take or leave what I tell you but I speak from experience and you only get this type of honesty on an anonymous forum.

**Jenny** · #3 (**permalink**) 06-14-2011

What you really need to do is just be yourself and comfortable with who you are. And always be honest with yourself rather than try to be something you are not

This is bullshit advice people. If you display the stereotypical nerdy behavior - shy, clumsy, unfit, unmasculine, not confident, little bed experience, no sense of fashion, etc - then telling this person to "just be yourself" is not going to help at all. After all, this is probably why he is single in the first place! This is like saying to a guy who is upfronf about enjoying beating up his GF that he should not change and just be himself.
Also, the underlying beliefs in this sort of advice are ridiculous. First, that people have to put up with whatever crap their potential partners. Second, that trying to be a better person (look- and personality-wise) is wrong. Both beliefs are plain wrong. I just dont see what is so repulsive in changing so as to look more appealing to a larger pool of women/men. Like you or not, dating/marriage markets are just like any other markets: a quality rare product is only up to the "richest" consumers. Get over this. Anyhow, good luck finding a quality girl who will take you just the way you are.

conbocuoi_hn · #4 (**permalink**) 08-20-2011

Thảo nào các bro nhà mình chỉ tán mỗi gái việt , bon tây nó đơn giản quá

kennvinh · #5 (**permalink**) 08-23-2011

i like it ! and what about Vietnamese professionals?